The ABCs of Sales: M is for Management (Time & Self)

We have come a long way in The ABCs of Sales, and thank you for tagging along! We hope you're learning from our experiences as much as we learned them the hard way.

Today, we delve into the letter M: Management.

Specifically, I want to talk about the most finite, non-renewable resource you have: Time Management. Once it’s gone, it’s gone. You can’t rewind the clock. This realization hit me hardest when my career scaled from selling squirrels to hunting elephants.

The Tender Trap: Hunting Elephants

Every salesperson has that one necessary task they dread. For me, it was, and often still is, tender preparation. It’s mind-engaging, detail-oriented, and feels exactly like sitting for a high-stakes exam. Yet, in B2B sales—especially when chasing major projects—competitive tendering is the gatekeeper to the biggest deals.

Early in my career, when I transitioned into technology sales, the deal sizes exploded. I went from conversations in the tens of millions to the hundreds of millions. Naturally, this meant I had to become fluent in the language of tenders.

I was hungry. I wanted every deal—the big "elephants" and the smaller "squirrels"—all at once. There's nothing wrong with ambition, but here's the flip side I painfully learned: winning a squirrel might cost you an antelope.

The Crisis Mode Culture

My strategy was simple: jump on every opportunity. The result? The support teams I worked with were constantly in crisis mode. We were perpetually behind, rushing documents, and operating in a state of high-stress adrenaline. This chaos led to a painful losing streak. Frustration turned into blaming, and animosity crept into the team.

Unsurprisingly, as the effort I put in increased, my sales results tanked. Why? I was spreading myself thin, working on tasks with the intention of just getting to the next one, rather than committing to quality. I was confusing activity with productivity.

Then came the thunderbolt.

My colleague, Chris, who had patiently observed the pattern, finally looked me in the eye and said, "I don't like how you work. Why are all your projects always on crisis mode?"

He was right.

It hit me how different mentally knowing something is from actually practicing and living it. I had read books on time management, but I was failing the practical exam.


From Crisis to Control

Chris's directness was the catalyst. In the following days, I committed to changing my approach to deal management.

  1. Prioritization & Decision-Making: I learned to take the "Go/No-Go" decision seriously. I attended training to identify the financial and technical landmines and curveballs before we invested hundreds of hours in a bid. I stopped chasing every squirrel.
  2. Headroom for Crises: I started setting personal deadlines at least two days ahead of the official team deadline. This gave the entire support team the "headroom" necessary to handle real, unavoidable crises without operating on fumes.
  3. Deep Work Blocks: Crucially, I implemented Time Blocking. I created periods for "deep work"—usually the complex tender reviews or proposal strategy—and guarded that time aggressively. If someone needed me, I politely asked them to wait until my block was done.

In no time, my mojo returned. The same team that was frustrated with me was now enjoying the work, and yes, we started winning again.

I still have a lot to learn, unlearn, and relearn about managing my time, but I’ve learned that managing your time is simply a form of managing your priorities and, ultimately, your mental health and win rate.


👂 Your Turn: Share Your M-Moment!

We've shared our journey from the chaos of 'crisis mode' to the clarity of control.

What about you? What was the pivotal experience, colleague's blunt comment, or external training that forced you to learn (or re-learn) time management in sales?

Share your story in the comments below! Let's help each other get better at the Management that matters most.

 

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